Grumpy Ol’ Man Syndrome


On a given day if you asked my wife, she might claim that they named the above medical syndrome after her own beloved husband. I must admit that I have my good days and bad days on the home front.  However, I take some comfort in knowing that I’m in good company. In fact, if my women patients are right, “grumpy ol’ man syndrome” has reached epidemic proportions.

The usual scenario is that the wives drag their husbands in, kicking and screaming the whole way.  Of course, the men are in complete denial and are busily hoping that Scotty will beam them up at any moment and rescue them from any event in which “feelings” are discussed.  Guys need to have just the right pretense for talking about such things.  It’s OK to ask “how’s the marriage” when you’re riding around in a golf cart with a good ol’ buddy, or out in the middle of a lake on a fishing boat.  It’s like foreplay; the only acceptable ways to engage in such conversation is if the foreplay is centered around football, golf, beer, fishing, hunting, or NASCAR.  Just to cold turkey and purposely sit down and have a talk about sensitive issues such as feelings can seem extremely unmanly and may be down right uncomfortable, even with the doctor.

Fortunately the wives are on the case big time, and they usually have the common sense to come with their strong silent types to the initial doctor’s appointment.  Although I know going into it, who is going to be the communicator, I at least show the guy enough respect to address the question directly to him. “How’s it going” I say.  “Fine,” or some other one worder is usually about all I get.  Then the truth spews forth like an Icelandic volcano from the fairer half. “He’s grumpy, sullen, irritable, moody, depressed, and he has no sex drive. He comes home after work and just crashes into his Lazyboy. He doesn’t have any energy, and he doesn’t want to do anything.  He has no interests, no get up and go, no joy in life.  He’s totally disconnected. And he’s getting fat and lazy.”

On the face of it such phrases may sound like fighting words. Instead, more often than not, he agrees with her, or through his silence and lack of argument one can assume that she is not too far from the truth. Now we’re starting to get somewhere.   Just like when you look up at the summer night sky and see the big dipper, it all comes into focus. He has “Grumpy ol’ Man Syndrome.”  Another name for this dreaded and all too common condition is “Andropause.”  At that moment, I know that I can help him.

Just like women go through menopause, men go through a similar process wherein their levels of hormones (in this case testosterone) fall to well below the acceptable range.  Also just as a woman’s menopause may have dramatic affects on her health, her mood, and her behavior, so too andropause may insidiously choke the life out of even the most macho of men.   They often become a shell of their former selves.  The men, their wives, family, friends, and co-workers all suffer the dreaded consequences of the decline in testosterone and its accompanying symptoms.

At the risk of seeming to be biased toward men, after all I personally fall into that category, I have to stand up for the guys just a bit and let them off the hook. In many instances they can’t help it.  The behavior, as I described above, is not of their choosing, but instead it is often hormonally driven. If only they had a robust and balanced hormone profile they most likely would be their usual lovable and manly selves.

True story: I had a patient in the office just recently who fit this description to a tee. His wife drug him in back about 6 months ago with the classic symptoms of “grumpy ol’ man syndrome.”  He was clinically depressed, grumpy, frail, had no libido and was starting to suffer from ED (erectile dysfunction).  We did all the appropriate lab testing and found that his testosterone was quite low. I put him on a program of hormone repletion, nutritional supplementation, and life style changes.   WOW!  He came back in for his follow-up visit and announced that he was feeling fantastic.  As he put it, his energy was “through the roof.” He could hardly believe what a difference the program had made for him. The depression was gone. Energy was better. He was exercising again. He was interested once again in sex, and interested in life in general.  His ED had magically disappeared, and he was thinking much more clearly.  He and his wife were both ecstatic. She had her beloved husband back. He had his life back, and they had their marriage back.  There is no antidepressant or any other “drug” in this world which could have achieved this outcome for this patient.

Furthermore, low testosterone and andropause can have even more dire consequences. A study published in the Archives of Internal Medicine describes an 88% increase in mortality in male veterans with low testosterone. Other published studies form reputable medical journals have linked low testosterone with poor cognitive function, Parkinson’s disease, Alzheimer’s disease, osteoporosis, hardening of the arteries, heart failure, insulin resistance, diabetes, and metabolic syndrome.  Testosterone decline may also contribute to abdominal obesity, decreasing muscle mass, joint pains, loss of self confidence, fatigue, disturbed sleep, anxiety, and excessive worry. Low testosterone is not just about muscles and libido. It is about optimal health, and even mortality.

Testosterone must be respected. Like all medications it must be used properly and must not be abused or used in excess. Testosterone replacement should never be done if it is not medically indicated.  Furthermore, the replacement program must be conducted properly with adequate monitoring to attain optimal levels, while paying attention to possible side effects. If done properly, it is safe and may be profoundly effective.  Testosterone replacement therapy is not for everybody. However, in the presence of “grumpy ol’ man syndrome” like with my patient described above, it can make a remarkable difference in the life of the patient and his partner.

Bottom line, if you suffer from “grumpy ol’ man syndrome,” get your T checked, and get it optimized.  If your loved one shows signs of this dreaded disease, drag him in and get him checked for “low T.” You’ll be glad you did.

Feeling Fat, Fatigued, and Depressed; Think Low Thyroid

Many experts now agree that millions of  Americans are falling through the cracks when it comes to the diagnosis and management of low-thyroid conditions (hypothyroidism). Unfortunately, the lack of proper attention to this issue often results in the patient living a life of fatigue, low mood, struggles with obesity, and many other problems.

Although the thyroid gland is small, it has powerful effects on the body.  Thyroid hormone regulates the metabolic rate of every single cell. If thyroid function is underactive (hypothyroid) a person can have a multitude of symptoms, sometimes subtle and sometimes profound. These symptoms may include, but are not limited to: fatigue, weight gain, cold extremities, low libido, dry skin, aches and pains, fibromyalgia, constipation, hair loss, brittle nails, poor memory, low stamina, headaches, puffy face, and low body temperature.  Perhaps the most common and important of the symptom being varying degrees of fatigue.

Diagnosis of low thyroid conditions, like most medical conditions, starts with listening to and examining the patient. Symptoms, as mentioned above, family history, and physical signs often point to the diagnosis of hypothyroidism.  If thyroid disease is suspected, a thorough lab evaluation should also be performed to assist in the diagnosis. However, the goal is to treat the whole patient, and not just to treat the labs.

If hypothyroid disease is confirmed, then proper treatment may include thyroid medications. There are several medications on the market, which may be quite helpful in relieving low thyroid symptoms. These include Synthroid, Armour thyroid, Cytomel, compounded thyroid, and others. One patient may respond well to a particular medicine, while another patient may find that a different medication works best to alleviate his or her thyroid related symptoms. Although Synthroid is often the drug of choice for many physicians, I have found Armour thyroid to be particularly effective in many of my low-thyroid patients. For others, Cytomel may be the key to alleviating their symptoms.

In summary, thyroid dysfunction is a condition that may have a profoundly negative impact on many patients. Yet according to various experts, millions of Americans suffer from inadequate diagnosis and treatment of hypothyroidism. Proper evaluation and treatment of these patients may help tremendously in improving their symptoms, and their quality of life.

Low Testosterone in Men- Grumpy Ol’ Man Syndrome

Grumpy Ol’ Man Syndrome

On a given day if you asked my wife, she might claim that they named the above medical syndrome after her own beloved husband. I must admit that I have my good days and bad days on the home front. However, I take some comfort in knowing that I’m in good company. In fact, if my women patients are right, “grumpy ol’ man syndrome” has reached epidemic proportions.

The usual scenario is that the wives drag their husbands in, kicking and screaming the whole way. Of course, the men are in complete denial and are busily hoping that Scotty will beam them up at any moment and rescue them from any event in which “feelings” are discussed. Guys need to have just the right pretense for talking about such things. It’s OK to ask “how’s the marriage” when you’re riding around in a golf cart with a good ol’ buddy, or out in the middle of a lake on a fishing boat. It’s like foreplay. The only acceptable ways to engage in such conversation is if the foreplay is centered around football, golf, beer, fishing, hunting, or NASCAR. Just to cold turkey and purposely sit down and have a talk about sensitive issues such as “how are you feeling” can seem extremely unmanly and may be down right uncomfortable, even with the doctor.

Fortunately the wives are on the case big time, and they usually have the common sense to come with their strong silent types to the initial doctor’s appointment. Although I know going into it, who is going to be the communicator, I at least show the guy enough respect to address the question directly to him. “How’s it going” I say. “Fine,” or some other one worder is about all I get. Then the truth spews forth like an Icelandic volcano from the fairer half. “He’s grumpy, sullen, irritable, moody, depressed, and he has no sex drive. He comes home after work and just crashes into his Lazyboy. He doesn’t have any energy, and he doesn’t want to do anything. He has no interests, no get up and go, no joy in life. He’s totally disconnected. And he’s getting fat and lazy.”

On the face of it such phrases may sound like fighting words. Instead, more often than not, he agrees with her, or through his silence and lack of argument one can assume that she is not too far from the truth. Now we’re starting to get somewhere. Just like when you look up at the summer night sky and see the big dipper, it all comes into focus. He has “Grumpy ol’ Man Syndrome.” Another name for this dreaded and all too common condition is Andropause. At that moment, I know that I can help him.

Just like women go through menopause, men go through a similar process wherein their levels of hormones (in this case testosterone) fall to well below the acceptable range. Also just as a woman’s menopause may have dramatic affects on her health, her mood, and her behavior, so too andropause may insidiously choke the life out of even the most macho of men. They often become a shell of their former selves. The men, their wives, family, friends, and co-workers all suffer the consequences of the decline in testosterone.

At the risk of seeming to be biased toward men, after all I personally fall into that category, I have to stand up for the guys just a bit and let them off the hook. In many instances they can’t help it. The behavior, I described above, is often hormonally driven. If only they had a robust and balanced hormone profile they most likely would be their usual lovable, sweet, and manly selves.

True story: I had a patient in the office recently who fit this description to a tee. His wife drug him in back about 6 months ago with the classic symptoms of “grumpy ol’ man syndrome.” He was clinically depressed, grumpy, frail, had no libido and was starting to suffer from ED (erectile dysfunction). We did all of the appropriate lab testing and found that his testosterone was quite low. I put him on a program of hormone repletion, nutritional supplementation, and life style changes. WOW! He came back in yesterday and announced that he was feeling fantastic. As he put it, his energy was “through the roof.” He could hardly believe what a difference the program had made for him. The depression was gone. Energy was better. He was exercising again. He was interested once again in sex, and interested in life in general. His ED had magically disappeared, and he was thinking much more clearly. He and his wife were both ecstatic. She had her beloved husband back. He had his life back, and they both had their marriage back. There is no antidepressant or any other “drug” in this world which could have achieved this outcome for this patient.

Furthermore, low testosterone and andropause can have even more dire consequences. A study published in the Archives of Internal Medicine describes an 88% increase in mortality in male veterans with low testosterone. Other published studies form reputable medical journals have linked low testosterone with poor cognitive function, Parkinson’s disease, Alzheimer’s disease, osteoporosis, hardening of the arteries, heart failure, diabetes, and metabolic syndrome. Testosterone decline may also contribute to abdominal obesity, decreasing muscle mass, joint pains, loss of self confidence, fatigue, disturbed sleep, anxiety, and excessive worry.

Testosterone must be respected. Like all medications it must be used properly and must not be abused or used in excess. Testosterone replacement should never be done if it is not indicated. It should not be done for the purpose of athletic performance. Furthermore, the replacement program must be conducted properly with adequate monitoring to attain optimal levels, while paying attention to possible side effects. If done properly, it is safe and may be profoundly effective. Testosterone replacement therapy is not for everybody. However, in the presence of “grumpy ol’ man syndrome” like with my patient described above, it can make a remarkable difference in the life of the patient and their partner.